Do I over-analyze age? Is it, really, just a number? In my opinion, it is not. Through the decades of our lives, we go through a variety of different stages. If we are living as we should be, we experience many things that throw us up to the highest altitudes and the lowest depths (hopefully literally, as well as figuratively).
As a solo traveler, and simply as a crazy travel addict seeking adventure, there have been many times I had a good, scraping, petrifying encounter with death. Being brushed by haphazardly-driven buses in Buenos Aires, getting lost for hours by myself in the Pantanal of Brazil, spinning ceaselessly in the ocean’s undertow in Costa Rica, and panicking underneath a raft while being asphyxiated by a damn GoPro that had been strapped to my helmet while whitewater rafting in the Padas River, Borneo- these are only a few of the examples. This is not to mention the many people I’ve loved- young and old- whom I have lost over the years.
Point being- our time is borrowed. It is so easy to take our lives for granted and put off what we really want until x, y, or z has been accomplished. Fuck that noise. The time is now. We will never have today or yesterday again. At age 33, I am more comfortable being who I am than ever before. I know what I want, am not sorry for the decisions I have made pursuing my Personal Legend, and trust even more that my path is leading me where I need to be. That being said, I am not getting any younger. My parents are aging, the majority of my friends are married and/or raising children, and I still contemplate the fantasy of living in a parallel universe.
These are facts of life I cannot change, but I do have control of my pursuits. As Tom Petty sang, “Well I won’t back down/ no, I won’t back down/ You can stand me up at the gates of hell/ but I won’t back down/ Gonna stand my ground/ won’t be turned around…” And so, the 33 goals and aspirations I have for the coming year are as follows:
- Spend as much time with my parents and family as possible.
- Get back into shape.
- Move to Barcelona, Spain.
- Travel to at least two more continents and 10+ countries.
- Improve my photography skills.
- Increasingly support eco-living- less consumption, less waste.
Finally see my musical/poetic hero- Bob Dylan- in concert.
- Continue the pursuit of a minimalistic lifestyle.
- Explore as much of Portland (and Oregon) as I can.
- Go on a cross-country road trip.
- Learn a fourth language.
- Take my advocacy for animal and human rights to a new level.
- Start writing poetry, and doing poetry readings, again.
- Volunteer more both in the U.S. and abroad.
- Go skydiving.
- Spend (waste) less time on social media.
- Save more money.
- Finish writing my first travel memoir.
- Start playing soccer (futbol/football) again.
- Meditate daily.
- Run a half-marathon.
- Rock climb in the great outdoors.
- Read at least 33 books, including Ulysses.
- Put Portland Travel Massive on the map in a major way.
- Backpack to the remaining countries in Latin America I haven’t seen.
- Inspire as many people as I can to live the lives they dream of.
- Trek the Camino de Santiago.
- Interview homeless people around the world to gain a better understanding.
- Head to Tanzania, volunteer with refugees, and head to Uganda to trek gorillas.
- Start drawing and painting again.
- Become permanently location-independent.
- Sail the seas (instead of relying on flights and over-land transportation).
What about you? What are your aspirations for this year of your life?
5 thoughts on “33 Goals, Desires, and Aspirations for My 33rd Year”
This is such an eloquently written and insightful post! I absolutely agree with every word of it! I know exactly what you mean when you say life is too short, I’ve faced a fair few close call moments myself, and being a nurse I have seen far, far too many people either die far too young or reach the end at an old age and say ‘I wish I had…’ Life really is far too short. We are all our own personal legends, and it is up to us to write them!
And I love your aspirations too! I’m sure you’ll get through every one!
Sound like wonderful goals! Life is certainly too short and we are all responsible for the life we make. Go create your life and enjoy 33!
What a fantastic piece full of hope, dreams and inspiration! I can’t agree more that life is far too short of a luxury to waste a single second not moving towards the life and person you want to create. As my 33rd year approaches in two months exactly, I love your idea of creating a list of goals to accomplish in that year! I also have a few of the same goals for my coming year, one being going skydiving – which I hope to do in Europe next year!
Wishing you a wickedly awe-inspiring 33rd year!
Beautiful post and enviable goals. I hope you achieve each and every one of them 🙂
Loved going through your blog.
Couldn’t agree more with your post! Life is indeed too short and shouldn’t be waisted, we tend to forget that now and then. You have a great list of goals and it has inspired me to work on my own list. 🙂